Frequently Asked Questions
You've got questions, we've got answers.
Wondering which game is right for you, how to play, or what to expect when you order? You'll find answers to our most common questions here. If there's anything else you'd like to know, just ask!
1. What is The Game of Lifestyle?
The Game of Lifestyle creates card games for consensually non-monogamous couples and people in the swinger lifestyle. Our games help break the ice, get conversations flowing, and make the transition from getting acquainted to getting intimate feel more natural and easier. Whether you're meeting another couple or a third for a threesome, looking for a fun way to get things started at a get-together, or exploring new positions, we've got a game for that!
2. Are your games suitable for beginners in the lifestyle?
Absolutely! Our games are designed for people at all stages of the lifestyle, from those who are just curious and exploring their interests to experienced players looking for new ways to have fun. With different games and levels of play, you can find something that suits your comfort level.
3. Why do I need game cards? Can't I just Google icebreaker questions and sexual positions?
You could, but are you really going to bring your phone or laptop into bed? And what about everyone else?
The real point is that meeting new people for an intimate experience can feel a little nerve-racking. Our cards give everyone something tangible to hold, read, and pass around. Plus, our questions and activities have been tried and tested. No silly or embarrassing stuff!
And asking someone to try a particular position or activity, whether it's something bi, oral, or anal, can feel awkward. That's where the cards come in. They do the asking for you, making it easier to explore your interests together.
4. Do we have to do everything the cards suggest?
Not at all! Everyone has their own comfort level, and our games are designed for people at all stages of the lifestyle, including those who are just exploring their interests. Choose what feels right for you, and skip anything you're not comfortable with.
5. Can we play your games more than once?
Definitely! You can replay our games and enjoy different experiences each time. With multiple games and expansion packs available, there are always new ways to mix things up.
6. Which game should we start with?
It depends on what you're looking for!
Ice Breaker: Perfect for getting acquainted and starting fun, provocative conversations about your interests and experiences.
Hot 'n Heavy: Designed to get the action started, with increasingly hot activities as you progress through the game.
Extra Hot Vol. 1 & 2: Expansion packs for Hot 'n Heavy that turn up the heat with additional cards featuring bi, oral, anal, and intercourse activities.
Threesome Vol. 1 & 2: Illustrated cards featuring MFM and FMF threesome positions. They're great for three people exploring their fantasies or for two couples playing together.
Wet 'n Wild: A waterproof card game designed for fun in the hot tub or pool.
7. What's the difference between Extra Hot Vol. 1 and Vol. 2?
They're two different expansions for Hot 'n Heavy, each offering additional cards to expand your play. You can add either one to your existing game or get both for even more variety.
8. Can I play Threesome with more than three?
Yes! It's a great option for two couples playing together. Three people participate in the action while the fourth reads the instructions. You can also take turns if you're playing with a larger group.
9. What's the difference between Threesome Edition Vol. 1 and Vol. 2?
Each volume features a different collection of cards, giving you more ways to explore and enjoy the experience. If you enjoy one, the other gives you something new to try!
10. What makes Wet 'n Wild different from your other games?
Wet 'n Wild features waterproof cards designed for playing in and around the water, making it perfect for hot tubs and pools. It includes many of the same cards found in Hot 'n Heavy and its expansion packs, so you can enjoy familiar favourites in a water-friendly format.
11. How many people can play your games?
Ice Breaker Edition works with as few as two people or a group of ten or more. Hot 'n Heavy Edition was designed for two couples or even just a threesome, but larger groups can join in, too. Threesome Edition was designed around threesome positions and can be played by three, four, or more people. Just take turns as needed!
12. Do I need a PayPal account to place an order?
No! We use PayPal to process payments securely, but you don't need a PayPal account to check out. You can select the credit card payment option at checkout.
13. Is your packaging discreet?
Yes, we understand that privacy matters. Your order arrives in plain packaging, without obvious product names or descriptions on the outside.
14. Where do you ship?
We ship to many destinations around the world. Enter your shipping address at checkout to see the available shipping options for your location. If we don't currently ship to your area, contact us, and we'll explore options with other carriers.
15. How long does shipping take?
Delivery times depend on your location and the shipping method you select. In the US, standard shipping typically takes 3–6 business days, while expedited shipping usually takes 2–4 business days. Check the estimated delivery information at checkout for the most relevant timeframe.
16. Have a date coming up and need your game in a hurry? Is that possible?
Yes, just contact us, let us know where you're located and when you need your game, and we'll explore the options. In many cases, overnight shipping with FedEx may be possible.
17. How can I contact The Game of Lifestyle?
Have a question we haven't answered? We'd love to hear from you! Get in touch through the contact information on our website, and we'll be happy to help.